What I wish I had instead of the things I regret adding to my baby registry

I told myself I wanted the cutest (read: priciest) version of every item, looked through several checklists, and added everything influencers swore by. And now? In the back of a closet, half of it is gathering dust.

So, from one mum to another, here’s what I regret putting on my baby registry—and what I truly wish I’d included instead.

Things I am Sorry to Have Listed on My Baby Registry

1. The Warmer Wipe

It seemed like a kind, considerate luxury at the time. Actually?

The wipes became dry.

It was not transportable.

And my infant did not give a damn.

Save your money and the outlet space.

2. Elegant Newborn Clothes

I am referring to tiny shoes, stiff tutus, and button-down shirts.

Adorable? Absolutely.

Useful? Absolutely not.

Do you know where my baby lived? Footed pajamas and zip-up onesies. In all honesty, her comfort made them more adorable.

3. A Huge 12-Compartment Diaper Bag Backpack

It sounded really well-planned! But I ended up losing track of which pocket I placed stuff in all the time. It felt like overkill and was cumbersome and hefty.

Easy to digest, simple, and washable? Much better.

4. A Microwave-Sized Bottle Sterilizer

It was used maybe twice and occupied half the kitchen counter. We found that using hot soapy water worked better and took less time.

5. Swaddles for Newborns Only

I signed up for some swaddles, but they were only available for the first six to eight weeks. Then? Useless. Babies also outgrow stuff quickly.

What I Would Have Liked to Sign Up For Instead

1. More larger-sized zip-up sleepers

It is impossible to have too many cozy zip-up sleepers. And believe me, babies grow up more quickly than you may imagine. It is vital to have options available in sizes ranging from 3 to 6M and 6 to 9M.

2. Items for Postpartum Care (for me)

I did not spend any time considering what I would need after giving birth, but instead spent hours studying bottle brands. The next time? I would sign up for:

Peri bottles

Balm for the breasts

Witch hazel pads

Comfortable nursing bras

A link to join up for the dinner train

In actuality, there are other people who require assistance besides the baby.

3. A Baby Carrier That Fits You



I wish I had gone inside the store and tried on a couple before choosing the "prettiest" one. Everybody is unique, and when you are wearing a baby for hours on end, comfort is more important than Instagram vibes.

4. A machine that produces white noise

I didn’t realize how sensitive babies are to sound—and how game-changing white noise would be. Additionally, portable choices are excellent for on-the-go naps.

5. More Useful Feeding Equipment

I wish I had requested the following instead of ten adorable bibs that do not absorb anything:

Burp towels that are capable of absorbing spittle

Several bottles to try before choosing a single brand

A breastfeeding pillow that provided support for my entire body, not just the infant

Things I am Glad I Did not Register For: 90% of the time, I used the floor or bed instead of the changing table.

Diaper bucket (really, a trash can with a lid did the trick)

Baby shoes (no function, maximum wear time of five minutes)

Anything designed (it was all pooped on anyhow)

What I Discovered: You Should Benefit from Your Baby Registry

It is simple to fall into the trap of planning a "Pinterest-worthy" babyhood that includes all the newest trends, matching outfits, and adorable accessories.

However, what you actually require is this:

Time-saving items

Things that promote healing and rest

Items that facilitate survival, feeding, and comforting

Whether you need extra help, food delivery credits, or lactation support, do not be scared to sign up for it.

Conclusion: You only need what works; you do not need everything.

Each infant is unique. All mothers are, too.

Therefore, it is okay if you already purchased the designer swaddles or the wipe warmer. Everybody has had "registry remorse."

The true secret? You pick up knowledge along the way. Additionally, you determine what works for your family rather than following a marketing team's checklist.

More assistance, less things. More elegance, fewer devices.

Mama, you have got this. Registry apologies and all.